Here's what came out of it all at the end:
My Dear Son,
If you need to belittle others
To make yourself grander,
You are not yet capable to love.
If you think that denying your tears
Makes you a brave man,
You are not yet man enough to love.
For you define yourself
Through what you do to others.
For nothing takes more courage
Than to face yourself.
My Dear Daughter,
If you need approval from others
In order to approve of yourself,
You are not yet ready to love.
If you believe that changing others
Will improve your own life,
You are not yet mature enough to love.
For you must love yourself
Before you can love others.
For nothing will change
Until you change yourself.
Yet, My Dear Children,
You cannot learn to love
Through my words.
You came here to experience
Love for yourselves.
So go out there and
Get your hearts broken.
Don't let fear stop you
From making "mistakes".
For only experience can help you
Discover your true capacity to love.
For you must understand what isn't love
Before you can understand what love is.